And the consistency we need to know

My young children learn to build a new motivation. However, in time, what I think to bring self-motivation is sometimes arise along with the sinking of failure that occurred.Motivation is sometimes appear to be great when I see or read or hear the motivation, the motivation provided by the motivator-great motivator. But the strength of the motivation that I had to survive a long time, and I think think this is the motor system, which should be directed to create a more concrete action.

Question:
How to grow a consistency to keep the motivation to think (success) so that power can create the consistency of thought to be a habit that ultimately will lead to action / action that is more evident for a life is this?

Thank you for your responses. Hopefully I can help to not only think, but more and Trying to Fight for my life ..